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On the morning of 9th June 2025, Dad went for what should have been his yearly routine blood test. By 6:00pm that same evening, our lives were changed forever. We were told he had AML. What had begun as an ordinary day became the start of the biggest fight of his life.
Having to share the news with family, friends, grandchildren, and colleagues was incredibly hard, but we quickly realised that we weren’t alone. The love and support that surrounded us from the very beginning gave us strength we didn’t know we had.
Just one week later, Dad began his first round of chemotherapy at the Northern Centre for Cancer Care (NCCC). Life turned upside down almost overnight. None of us knew what lay ahead, but from the first doctor we met to the consultants and nurses we continue to see, the level of professionalism, compassion, and kindness has been extraordinary. These people—who we hadn’t even known existed before—soon became part of our fight, supporting Dad and us every step of the way.
The change for Dad was dramatic. After almost 25 years of working HGV night shifts, and never having been admitted to hospital before, suddenly he was facing long stays and intense treatment. At first, it took a toll on him emotionally. But as he got to know the staff, their kindness and humour started to bring him back to himself. Slowly, we saw his spark and his humour return—something we will forever be grateful for.
There were dark times: fevers, infections, and endless treatments. But with the care of the staff, those hard days were made easier. When Dad finally came home between his second and third rounds of chemotherapy, it felt like a piece of normal life had returned, even if only briefly.
By the end of his three rounds of chemo, Dad had been on every ward at the NCCC, and it felt like we had gained a whole new family. We also found invaluable support through the Maggie’s Centre. At first, Mam and I didn’t want to go—we couldn’t bear the thought of crying in front of strangers. But once we did, I wished we’d gone sooner. Their support has been incredible, and we can’t thank them enough.
We also met the transplant team, who explained everything clearly and reassured us that a donor search would begin early just in case. To our relief, Dad had a 10 out of 10 match. On 1st September, we received the news we had been waiting for: Dad was in deep remission. The relief and joy we felt that day is something we will never forget.
Even now, Dad remains in hospital due to infections, but the level of care continues to be outstanding. Every doctor, nurse, and consultant has taken the time to answer our questions—sometimes more than once, when it was hard to take things in. Nothing has ever been too much trouble.
We also want to thank Jacqui from Leukaemia Care for her ongoing support, always checking in to see how Dad was doing. When my dad was first admitted to hospital, Jaqui came to visit him and introduced us to the wonderful work of the charity. At the time, Dad wasn’t able to take much in, so Jaqui kindly arranged to return when my mam could be present. She sat with them both, explained everything with such care, and left helpful information for them to read through together.
Jacqui has always been a pleasure to see. She never rushed, always made time for a chat, and her kindness brought real comfort during a difficult time. We look forward to keeping in touch with her during hospital visits for check-ups – it truly makes the day easier knowing someone is there who cares and is happy to listen.
Seeing Dad go through so many blood and platelet transfusions opened our eyes to just how important donors are. I signed up straight away and encourage anyone who can to do the same—it truly saves lives.
Finally, to our family and friends: we could never thank you enough. From Mam sitting with Dad every day, to lifts after long work shifts, to visits that lifted his spirits—you’ve all played such a vital role in his journey. We will be forever grateful.
To the NCCC staff, the transplant team, the Maggie’s Centre, Jacqui, and everyone who has supported us—thank you. Words will never fully capture our gratitude, but you have made this journey easier, and you have given us hope.
Here’s to brighter days ahead, more memories with our dad, and knowing that all of you are part of his story.
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